Thursday, May 25, 2017

The Corner Pocket ~ New Orleans, Louisiana ... My Kind Of Party!

 
   Every year for my birthday, I always want to spend it where I can tip the dancing boys. And when it comes to celebrations and having a party, I know of no better city to party in than New Orleans. So, as an early birthday celebration, I visited the Crescent City and of course, spent a large portion of my time at The Corner Pocket.
 
 
   I'd rather celebrate birthdays by enjoying a new experience rather than receiving a tangible gift. Don't get me wrong, I like gifts that I can 'hold in my hands'. However, an experience like what can be found at The Corner Pocket is one-of-a-kind. And since The Corner Pocket is one of my favorite places in the male stripper world, I love drinking', tipping' and playin' with the boys on the bar. It's a perfect way to celebrate getting another year older.
 
 
   When I know I'll be going to The Corner Pocket, I ALWAYS plan for two days of fun, instead of one. And on this visit, the bar was full on Friday and Saturday night with both customers and the number of dancers. From the moment your greeted at the door by Barry, you know you've walked in to somewhere special.
 
   There were around 30 male dancers at The Corner Pocket each night we were there. The boys step up on the bar for their sessions, usually 4 to 5 at a time. Their names are announced by the lovely and talented Lisa Beaumont. They rotate around the bar greeting customers, receiving tips, and providing some very nice eye candy.
 
 
   During those sessions and rotations, I especially enjoyed the company of a few specific dancers. Alex (in pic above and top) interacts with the customers in a fun, sensual and entertaining way. He also has a few costume or prop surprises that keeps things interesting. I was glad to see Alex was dancing both nights.
 
 
   Chris stood out for working a unitard and doing it well. He was cute and a favorite of the night. Ace and Cody were two others that stood out for me. Ace had the best defined body. Cody was a cutie. I enjoyed tipping each of these dancers! My partner also had a favorite and spent a lot of time tipping Michael S.

Photo Source: The Corner Pocket
 
   There is one dancer that I haven't mentioned yet because he is my Corner Pocket favorite. Mitchell (above) has been dancing at The Corner Pocket on my past two visits. When Mitchell is in the house, all he has to do is walk by and I'll start sticking dollars in his waistband. He has a tight body, amazing ass and bulges to capacity in any pair of underwear he wants to wear. He knows how to play the stripper game. He is the type of male dancer that keeps the fans and customers wanting to return. Honestly, if he were the only dancer for the night, I would still have a great time. Of course, I might have to elbow a few other customers out of the way to tip him. But fortunately at The Corner Pocket, there are plenty of dancers to go around, and everyone gets to have fun!
 
 
 
   With New Orleans and The Corner Pocket, you can always count on large parties during the major events and holidays. In September the gay community descends upon the French Quarter with a Southern Decadence (use Southern Decadence as both a noun and a verb). The ghouls, goblins and sexy boys come out during Halloween. And those of you in cooler northern climates need to drop down to N'ahlins for New Year's Eve and ring in the new year Cajun style. But wait, there's more.
 
   Unless you've been living under a rock, you have heard tales being told about Mardi Gras with King cakes, doubloons, beads, and parades. Keep following the calendar because you'll still find more partying for St. Patrick's Day, and even a huge Gay Easter party and parade! New Orleans is also an excellent place to celebrate Pride! Make The Corner Pocket your home base for all the events and activities.
 
 
   Some of the dancers from The Corner Pocket participated in an Easter Fundraiser at the House Of Blues. We borrowed their pic for an Easter Day social media post (above). For more on Easter in New Orleans, click here. Many of the celebrations listed in this blog are also fund raisers for some very worthy causes. Clink on any of the links in the text, or in the links below to find out more.
 
 
 
 
   I recommend The Corner Pocket and New Orleans as a destination for any of your yearly celebrations, vacations or weekend getaways. And be sure you plan for two nights at The Corner Pocket. One is never enough!
 
   Until next time, Save The Bulge! Tip the dancing boys! Support your local dick dancer bars and clubs!
 

 
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Photo Source: Males In Motion

Tuesday, May 9, 2017

When The Other Shoe Drops ~ 4 Signs That Your Favorite Male Dancer Venue Is In Decline


Photo Source: Males In Motion
   "Waiting for the other shoe to drop" is an English idiom meaning we're waiting for something to happen, usually something bad. In this case I'm applying it to a bar or club that features exotic male dancers that is in decline. We're waiting for the 'other shoe to drop' or for the bar or club to permanently close their doors. Please read the blog and then assess the current financial health of your favorite bar or club with male dancers.
 
Sign #1 - Continual Management and Staff Infighting
   It isn't unusual that there are people in the same workplace who do not get along 100% of the time. A successful business will find a solution for a particular conflict that all involved parties can agree upon. Or, in some cases, if it is simply one person who is a troublemaker, then management can remove that person and replace them. Then the business moves on. However, when a business continually has infighting among its staff or management, then there is an underlying issue which will eventually rise to the surface and may cause irreversible damage. Unfortunately, this often gets played out in social media with bickering, throwing shade, and damaging negativity. When it gets to the point that the customers are affected, and it will, then they will start to avoid this location taking their dollars with them.
 
Sign #2 - Male Dancer Burnout
   Most clubs have a frequent turn over with new dancers coming in on a regular basis. Some male dancers find success in this career and want to ride the wave as long as they can. Taking time off is good for everyone but sometimes it is necessary to work without a break in order to pay the bills, debts, etc. Some dancers simply cannot afford to take time off. When a dancer is experiencing burnout, a negative attitude will often be cast over many facets of their life. This will become evident to colleagues, management and most importantly, to customers who are coming to the bar or club to be entertained and have a good time. When a dancer is experiencing burnout, they have very little motivation to entertain. If other dancers are feeling burn out, they will feed off of each other and the negativity will spread. The customers will then have a negative experience as well. When customers are not having fun, they will take their dollars and seek other sources of entertainment.
 
Sign #3 - Decline In Customer Service
   A decline in customer service is usually marked by the "I don't care" attitude. This can be seen in the work of staff members, management and dancers. There are a multiple of reasons that can cause this to happen but the result is always the same. The customers are not taken care of and will take their business elsewhere. This attitude can infect the staff across the board if a concerted effort is not made to stop it. If the bartender doesn't care how they serve a guest; the DJ doesn't care what music they play; the doorman doesn't care whether you come in or not; the dancers don't care if you have a good time or not; and management doesn't care about any of them, then obviously you have a problem. It always starts with small things but eventually will expand to include more important issues, tasks and responses.
 
#4 - Social Media And Online Information Rarely Updated
   I will admit that this is one of my pet peeves. My business life revolves around social media and online information. If your business has been around for many years and you have solid regular customers that keep you afloat, then I can see how an online presence might not be a priority to you. There comes a time when older customers need to be replaced with new, younger customers, if a business wants to continue into the future. And the current way to reach those new younger customers, is through social media.
   What frustrates me more than a non-presence online is an outdated one. I recently made plans based on a club website where a promotion was made for male dancers on a specific night each week. I had followed this club online in the past and had seen the promo ads they posted, and pics of the some of the dancers that they were featuring. So, I made plans to be in the area of said club on the particular night that male dancers were featured. I checked the social media of the club to see if there were any changes in schedule announced, etc., and there were none.
   My partner and I arrived at the club on the specific night to find the parking lot empty and the club dark. It was closed. I called the number to the club and a recording said the club would be open the next night and announced some special guest that would be there. But did not say anything about being closed that night. Yes, I should have called previously to verify but I had no reason to question the website information.
   Had we known, we would have made plans to be in a different city and at a club with male dancers that was open. Of course, I did gain some wisdom and will call in the future if I am in a similar situation. I doubt if I'll ever return to that club though, because once your burned, it's difficult to go back. And I'm sure I'm not the only customer who feels this way. I did message this club and ask them to update their website. I explained what had happened. No response. I can't say I'm surprised. I'll tell the name of the club after the doors have closed permanently.

Photo Source: Males In Motion
   How did your favorite club measure up? I will point out that a bar that is struggling financially is different than a bar in decline. All businesses have peaks and valleys when it comes to financial health. Until next time, support your local dick dancer bar...please tip the male dancers, bartenders and staff! Help keep this industry strong! It is our favorite form of entertainment!!!

 
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Thursday, April 27, 2017

Daydreaming And Thinking Of Beaux From KC - The Males In Motion April Obsession


Photo Source: Men Of Skin

   We've followed the Men Of Skin for several years now. Zion and the boys always put on an amazing customer-centered show whether doing a Male Review or Go-Go dancing at clubs like Missie B's in Kansas City. We were watching the past few months when a new dancer was added to their line up. And we took notice! And just maybe a few of our daydreams lately have included Beaux. We've included Tamia's version of Daydreaming And I'm Thinking Of You below. Click play, read more and do a little daydreaming of your own featuring Beaux.
 
 

Photo Source: Men Of Skin

   It isn't our normal custom to feature a relatively new male dancer but when an obsession takes over, there's absolutely nothing you can do about it...except go along. We know a good thing when we see it. And if he happens to be an exotic male dancer, well, you can be damn sure we're going to follow him.
 

Photo Source: Men Of Skin

   Each pic that we've seen of Beaux provides a glimpse of the variety of fantasies that he can fulfill. In some pics, he's the cute boy next door and you want to knock on his door. In some pics, he's the guy who makes you say "HELLO", and you pause to greet every inch. Sometimes you see him and you remain very quiet with that knowing grin starting to spread across your face. Then other times he makes you want to scream, or at least that is what is going on inside your head and traveling down every nerve in your body. Each of these may be just a fantasy but Beaux is going to play a starring role in our daydreams this month and many more.
 

Photo Source: Men Of Skin

   There are a lot of things we like about Beaux. Those eyes, that chest, and you haven't seen it yet, but OMG that ass! Sorry, if I get carried away, but remember there is an obsession going on here.
 

Photo Source: Men Of Skin

   I think this pic with the angel wings is cute. However, in my daydreams, Beaux is no angel, nor am I. (Insert evil laugh here!)

Photo Source: Men Of Skin

   Excuse me a minute I feel a scream coming on. I'll be right back.........................Ok, well now, until next time, don't forget to tip the boys! And enjoy your daydreams!

 
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Sunday, April 23, 2017

Six Ways To Make More In Tips - Mike's Suggestions To Male Dancers - And These Are Easy!


Photo Source: Men Of Eden   Dancer: Ricky Roman for Men Of Eden
Location: Trevi Lounge ~ Fairfield, CT

   There are six simple things you can do that will increase the amount of money you make in tips. In this blog I will give pointers on how to accomplish each one easily. The more of the six you master, the more you will see your tips increase.
 

Photo Source: Asher Photography   Dancer: Ricky Spanish
Location: Area 18 ~ Tulsa, OK

#1 - SMILE
   Let's start with a smile. A smile can present an entire conversation to the customer when you haven't said one single word. You might think that a smile should be automatic, but unfortunately it is not. There are some dancers who either forget to smile, or maybe they never have. A smile presents an attitude that makes you approachable, friendly and having fun. Let us speak plainly. A smile can be the bait that reels in the customer to tip. I have been in clubs where a dancer had an amazing body but he does not smile. This gives off the vibe that either he is conceited and arrogant, or doesn't want to be there. I have also seen straight male dancers who are dancing in a gay club but have not yet found their comfort level. Find it and get with the program. That is, if you are wanting to make any money in tips. And gay men do like to tip.
   Without a smile many customers are turned off. And if the other dancers have hot bodies and are smiling at the customers, it doesn't take a genius to figure out where the tip money will go. As an example, I hold up Ricky (pic above) at Area 18 in Tulsa, OK who is known for his smile. Click here and read why Ricky was the Males In Motion February Obsession.
 

#2 - DANCE ON NON-WEEKEND NIGHTS
   Friday night seems to be the night of the week when the most tips can often be made. That is excluding any special events held on other nights. Friday night is the night when most folks are ready to blow off steam after a week of work. This involves spending money on beer, cocktails, and entertainment. In some locations Saturday night is the big night. This causes most of the dancers to want to work the weekend nights. That's understandable. However, this means more dancers show up on weekend nights which translates into the tips being spread over a greater number of dancers. If you are one of the most popular dancers, then hey, that may work for you. But if you are not, there may be too much competition for the customer dollars for you to have a good night of tips. If you are wanting to make more in tips, then sometimes you have to add an additional night, or work the nights that fewer dancers want to work. All you are giving up is your time. During the week, you could have visiting business people who are ready to have a little fun. All it takes is one big spender on a week day night to make it the biggest night in tips. You'll also be building some kudos with the management. They sometimes struggle with having enough dancers on non-weekend nights.
 

Photo Source: Men Of Skin Facebook
Location: Mix Ultralounge ~ Springfield, MO    Dancer: Zion

#3 - ENHANCE YOUR PERFORMANCE WITH COSTUMES
   I will tip a dancer if he is wearing a cowboy hat and/or cowboy boots even if I'm not really into him. I will tip a dancer if he adds some type of accessory like a leather harness, a hat, army boots and hat with dog tags, etc. There are so many things that can be added here. I love a male dancer in and out of underwear as much as the next male dancer fan. But if a dancer takes the initiative to go one step further and play into my fantasies, then I'm going to tip, and tip extra. This is really important to the guys who dance at a club where there are many male dancers. You want to distinguish yourself from the rest. It is also important for the regular customers who have seen the same thing from you every week. Step up your game and add some costume enhancements. I will say one word of warning here, I do not tip for items I feel are more appropriate for a drag queen. However, if you have customers who respond to that, then go for it. It's just not my thing.
 

#4 - PROMOTE YOURSELF EARLY
   When a person is in their early 20s, they may not decide where they want to party on a particular night, until just before they leave their house, or when they meet up with friends. However, older customers are not like that. They are used to planning their weeks. And they usually make plans a week or more in advance of an event. If you are wanting your older customers to come to the club and tip you, you need to give them plenty of notice. This is the same for travelers. If they are going to need transportation, they are wanting to make decisions early so they know they have the flight, etc., to the area. If you wait to promote yourself in social media, etc., on the day of the event, you have already missed several opportunities for receiving tips from the older customers. Let me ask you...do the customers in their 20s tip well for you? If so, then excellent! But I will inform you that you are among the few male dancers where this is the case. The older customers have more dollars to spend. If you want to receive some of those dollars in tips, then you need to promote at least a week early, and then a few more times as the day approaches. I applaud the dancing boys in Ohio, like Johnny W. Dangerously (above), who are masters at this type of promotion. Click here and see why Johnny W. Dangerously was the Males In Motion March Obsession.
 

#5 - TEASE
   "It's All About The Tease!" is one of my favorite slogans for Males In Motion. There are a few male dancers that need to be told a little secret...just because you are standing around in your underwear, or less, doesn't mean I'm going to tip you. Nope. Don't get me wrong. I'm grateful, but like all customers/fans we have likes and dislikes and will react accordingly. I enjoy tipping dancers who fit the categories of twinks, guys with athletic defined bodies or wiry muscular bodies. My partner on the other hand likes male dancers who are stocky and hairy, and often goes for the more mature looking dancers as well. However, I'll let you in on another secret...with a little added tease, a customer can decide to include your type in their preferences, if only for a moment. And that moment is long enough to receive a tip.

Photo Source: Noah, dancer at Boxers N Briefs ~ near St. Louis, MO

   I've already labeled myself as easy when it comes to male dancers and it's true. But like I said, I do have my preferences. These preferences have been expanded at times for different reasons. I have tipped a male dancer when he gave me a shoulder rub after I'd been traveling all day. It was well worth it. I have tipped a dancer that I wasn't interested in because he stopped and had a conversation with me and tried to connect with me. Sure, he was working me, but he wasn't just standing there waiting and expecting me to tip him. But I did because he made a connection. With both there was also a tease through a little sexual innuendo and/or maybe blatant sex talk during the exchange. And it should be no surprise that I have tipped because I was given a sneak peek of 'the goods'...not always the full monty, but enough to capture my attention. I also want to say that I have tipped a second time because after the first tip, the dancer either gave me a hug or a quick kiss usually on my cheek or forehead.

Photo Source: Southern Studs Live Facebook   Based in South Carolina

#6 - THE THANK YOU TIP
   When someone comes up and tips you while you are dancing, working the pole, on the box, on the stage, giving a lap dance, etc., first say "thank you", give them a hug or light kiss on the cheek, and remember them. After you have finished your session, that song, or however your time is broken up among dancers, find each person that tipped you, and go to them to say thanks for tipping me while I was dancing. It is almost a guarantee that they will tip you again at that time. Please be grateful for the tip and not just following through the motion. If you are fake, they will pick up on that and may keep their money in their pocket. But if you are sincere, and go to them, give them a little attention and say thanks, you will almost always get at least one tip if not more. Some customers will continue tipping you while you are standing there. I do. If I've got up out of my seat and walked up to the area where the dancer is performing and tip them, then that is stating that I like this dancer. So, I'm already open to tipping more.

Photo Source: Stock Bar - Wednesday is Ladies Night ~ Montreal, Quebec

   How many of the six have you already mastered? There are many more suggestions, tips and ideas that can assist the male dancer in making more in tips. If anyone has a good one to offer, please post it in the comment section below. To all the customers and male dancer fans who have been reading along in this blog, we say thank you for tipping! It keeps the exotic male dancer entertainment industry going! Plus, it's fun!

Photo Source: Males In Motion
   Save the bulge! Work for the tips! And customers, please tip generously! Thank you very kindly!

 
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Monday, April 10, 2017

Two Hands Are Needed ~ Stock Bar in Montreal ~ Nude Male Dancers Online


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website

   "Nude Male Dancers"... those three words have always, ALWAYS, captured my attention. And a few years ago I found them attached to a website that featured Nude Male Dancers broadcast live. I decided to check it out and was immediately in awe of the beautiful boys from Montreal, Quebec who dance at Stock Bar.


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website

   Over the years the faces have changed as dancers have come and gone, but still today, Stock Bar is producing quality entertainment of the sensual erotic male kind.


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website

    Back then I subscribed to the site. A few years ago, I went one step further and became an advertising affiliate with Stock Bar and the nude male dancers. And as with any advertising and promotion that I do, if I do not believe in the product, then I will not place it on my website, social media, etc.


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website

   Each year at various times throughout the year, I subscribe to Stock Bar's Nude Male Dancers online broadcast in order to evaluate the current quality and value of the entertainment that is presented. This past week was one of those times, and I must say that I truly enjoyed the experience of watching those talented and 'blessed' young men as they performed their rotations on the stage, and behind the scenes.


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website

   Although as you might suspect, I would rather be sitting in the club and tipping the boys in person, my budget and schedule doesn't allow that to happen as frequently as I would like. Having the option of watching the boys online through the HD broadcast provides the visual enjoyment when I'm not able to be there.


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website

   There are other features online that aren't available at the club. Watching the boys get ready in the back room is one of those. Ever wonder what the guys do to get those already large endowments to stand at full attention before coming on stage? Watching the back room option lets you see for yourself. And from what I've seen, I'd say two hands are needed to firmly grasp the situation.


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website

   There is a chat room as part of this site, and I always enter it and see what everyone is talking about. The topics bounce around to many different things but always keep a thread about the dancers who are appearing on the screen at the time. One of the questions I asked the chat group was "who are their current favorites?" Several responded with the names of who they looked forward to seeing on stage.


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website

   Every fan of exotic male dancers has their favorite types. Or sometimes, maybe due to familiarity, etc., they have specific dancers who wind up being their favorites. I'm no different. With this visit to Stock Bar online, I have selected those that I really liked. I've listed my favorites below with pics.


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website

   One of my favorites was Brad (above). As you can see, he is fully equipped for the job. I liked all of that of course, but he also has the most amazing eyes. You can't really tell it from these pics, but believe me the HD broadcast will show them clear. He has eyes that will melt hearts. The fifth pic from the top of this blog is also Brad.


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website

   Gunner has the most amazing body! (above) And part of that amazing body as you can see above is that ass! The pic third from the top is also Gunner and his great ass! I enjoyed watching those muscles move each time he stepped onto the stage.


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website

Photo Source: Stock Bar Website

   I was happy to see that Spencer is still dancing at Stock Bar. (the two pics above) On a past visit to the club, I spent some time with Spencer for a private lap dance. You can read all about that experience by clicking here.


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website

   The pics and descriptions in this blog are only a small reflection of the solid line up of quality male dancers found at Stock Bar. I could easily fill several blogs with pics of different dancers and list their sexy attributes.


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website

   On Tuesday and Thursday nights in the Studio section of the website, you'll find one of the dancers stripping live. (See pic above) The viewers can make comments and ask questions in a chat window, and the dancer will respond live. You'll enjoy all of them but I especially like some of the sexy French Canadian accents. Scan through recordings of previous Studio nights and watch one of the dancers that does it for you. You get the opportunity to get a little more personal with your favorites. And there is almost always a happy ending to this event whether live or recorded. Who doesn't like a story with a happy ending?


Photo Source: Stock Bar Website

   If you like nude male dancers, then you'll love the Stock Bar website. Check it out! It's always free to just look around. Watch some of the sample videos of the dancers on stage. Click here or on any of the pics above and see the beautiful dancing boys from Montreal! Until next time, get cozy and watch the boyz!

 
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