Thursday, July 20, 2017

Cheesecake Bliss And Farting Rainbows ~ Professionalism For The Male Stripper And Other Entertainers

Photo Source: Males In Motion
   A successful working relationship with club management, show directors, other entertainers, bartenders, DJs, etc., can be compared to the phases found in a relationship with the one you love. The initial phase of the working relationship is the honeymoon where you and the other party enjoy cheesecake bliss and fart rainbows every time you work together.

Photo Source: Bradley's on 7th ~ Tampa, FL
(This pic is here simple to encourage you to keep reading, and pointing the way.)
   The next phase is the meat and potatoes, day-to-day making it work relationship. Successful relationships stay in this phase and grow into maturity. You may still feel giddy when you get together and you have a certain type of love for them. But if you are honest, there are times when you want to tear their fuckin' head off! But you work through it because you respect the person and the relationship. Those who can maintain this type of working relationship are those who have developed an attitude and the related actions of professionalism. They do what it takes to make it work. This results in a deeper and stronger relationship with the other person.

Photo Source: Beaux ~ San Francisco, CA   Photo by Mr. Pam
(This pic is here simple to encourage you to keep reading, and pointing the way.)
   In contrast, at this point the doomed relationships enter a downward spiral. Neither party can do anything right in the eyes of the other party. And of course, it's all the other person's fault. No common ground can been found, successful communication has ended, and all that is left is throwing shade, and laying blame. The rainbows turn to storm clouds and the cheesecake bliss becomes eat shit and die! Eventually, one party or both parties decide they can no longer work together!

Photo Source: Stockbar ~ Montreal, QC, Canada
(This pic is simply here to let you know there is more to reveal. Keep reading.)
   Sometime this past year I met a male dancer at a club where I like to visit whenever I can (dang, that could be every club with male dancers). This dancer had a nice body, pleasant personality and I enjoyed tipping him and talking to him that night. He said he really enjoyed working at the club. He talked about how everyone was so nice. He was happy to be dancing there and was making decent tips. Not long after that night, we became friends online.

Photo Source: Chippendales ~ Las Vegas, NV
(This pic is simply here because I LOVE cowboys!)
   A few months passed, and I saw he was online so I messaged him and asked how it was going. He then proceeded to give me this scathing review of how the club where I met him was being operated so poorly. He claimed the owners were treating him and the other dancers unfairly, etc. I let him ramble from one negativity to another, trying to insert some constructive suggestions on how to make it better. He didn't value any of the solutions that I suggested. Instead, he continued down a list of what was wrong with everything about the club and its management. He wasn't interested in finding a solution to any conflict or situation. It was easy to recognize which phase of the relationship he was in. He spent the majority of our conversation throwing shade and laying blame.

Photo Source: Club Extatis ~ Tijuana, Mexico
(This pic is here because....well, I think you can figure that one out.)
   I always have one suggestion for someone like this, particularly when I know the actual reality of the situation. And in this case, I knew the reality didn't match his version of the story. I told him that he had a choice. No one was making him work at that location. He could leave at any time and never go back. And that if he was being treated that poorly, he needed to leave instead of being so miserable. Of course, he became silent which ended the online conversation. It wasn't long after this that I found out he was no longer dancing at the club. I am not sure if that was his choice or that of the club management. I didn't share our conversation with the club's management, that's not my place. I would have said something only if I felt the dancer might be a physical danger to someone.

Photo Source: Club 340 - Pomona, CA
(This pic is here for the cute twink lovers.)
   But the story didn't end there. Recently, I visited this club again and guess who was dancing? What was my response? I ignored him. I refused to tip him or even acknowledge him when he came into the area of the club where I was sitting. Why did I do that? I have a positive and strong reputation in the exotic male dancer entertainment industry. I want to maintain that reputation for two reasons. First, because I have worked damn hard to build it. Second, in business your reputation is everything. I chose not to interact with this dancer because if he will tell untruths to me about the club where he works, then what would stop him from telling untruths about any interaction I have with him at the club or online.
   If you aren't inclined to act professionally because it is a part of your personal integrity, at least be willing to act professionally for the sake of protecting your source of income. When you act unprofessionally, you never know what doors of opportunity you could be closing. Because of this dancer's unprofessionalism, I will never consider hiring him for an event that I am producing. I will never consider contacting him about a modeling gig that I am conducting for male dancer online promotions. I am contacted all the time by club managers around North America asking for male dancers I can refer for their clubs and events. This dancer of course, will never be recommended by me.

Photo Source: The Corner Pocket - New Orleans, LA
(This pic is here because the Corner Pocket is one of my favorite clubs...and Jonathan, pictured dancer, is such a hottie!)
   Being in this business for fourteen years, I feel I have developed a certain level of wisdom about how it operates. I despise people who are in it to cause drama. Unless you are a very close friend of mine, and probably not then either, I don't really care about the drama that goes on at various clubs! Things happen. Sometimes people can't work together. That is the reality. But how you conduct yourself before, during and after that working relationship is the true measure of your character and professionalism. Please don't misunderstand, there have been bars, clubs and events that are mismanaged. The bottom line here is that mismanagement of this type cannot go on for very long. This business is too unforgiving to allow it. If it does continue, the bar, club or event will eventually be shutdown. Everyone can stop right now and think of a bar or club that has closed because of financial issues, personnel issues, health department issues, bad business decisions, etc. It's difficult to be a success in this business.

Photo Source: Southern Nights Tampa ~ Tampa, FL
(This pic is here because I wanted to you to have a smile on your face when you finished reading the blog. Thanks for reading.)
   I recommend that you choose your words carefully. Never vent your frustrations to customers, other dancers or staff members. Everyone has a bad night now and then. Find a friend who will listen and then forget. Sometimes we all have to blow off steam. Keep your words and actions above the gutter talk and maintain your professionalism. When you are angry, stay away from social media. Until next time, have a piece of cheesecake.

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Friday, June 30, 2017

Don't Believe Me Just Watch ~ Gettin' Naked With Bryce Adonis ~ Males In Motion June Obsession

Photo Source: Bryce Adonis
(NOTE: If you followed a link to here and are viewing this blog on your computer and it is a little 'wonky' (technical term). Please go to the bottom of the blog first and click "web view".)
   If you're looking for the boy next door, you know the one, the hammer and nails and puppy dog tails type. Well honey, that's not Bryce and you need to run away now. You're not ready for Bryce.

Photo Source: Bryce Adonis
   But if you are wanting to party with the bad boy with the killer smile, who can tease with the best of them, then let out your inner bad girl, and take a turn on the wild side. If you're the right girl, you just might get lucky. If you're the right boy, well, there isn't a right boy, but he will support you and be right beside you riding in the Pride parade.

Photo Source: Bryce Adonis
   I've always had a thing for the bad boys like Bryce, and I don't want to change them one bit. I like hanging out with them. I'm drawn to the sense of impending danger and the feeling of walking on the edge.

Photo Source: Bryce Adonis
   And I don't think I'm alone when I say that gay guys like to test the waters and see if a straight guy is really straight, mostly straight, bi or just needs a little help opening the closet door. Bryce will tease the hell out of you all night long, while in his head he's singing "Never gonna get it. never get it!" I suggest that you keep sliding those tips in place and see. The tease is well worth it!

Photo Source: Bryce Adonis
   Now that the bad boy stuff is out of the way, I'll let you in on a little secret. Yea, he does speak his mind, and some might not always like what he has to say. But I also know that deep down inside, he's a real sweetheart. (Don't tell him I told you though.)

Photo Source: Bryce Adonis  With Alexis Flame

Photo Source: Bryce Adonis
   Bryce is driven. He has expanded his popularity around the Northeast and dances regularly in Connecticut, Massachusetts, and New York. He also makes regular trips out to the West Coast to appear in locations in Los Angeles and San Francisco areas. He often performs with the Adonis Lounge male strippers in both New York and Los Angeles venues. He can also be seen at times, dancing at the Spunk parties in NYC at such clubs as Fairy Tail Lounge. You get all of that but wait, there's more...many of these locations are all-nude venues. He makes appearances from time-to-time at one of my favorite all-nude clubs, X-Room at Mardi Gras in Springfield, MA. (Bad Boy Bryce + Nudity = Holy Sh*t And Naked Fun!)

Photo Source: Bryce Adonis

Photo Source: Bryce Adonis
   When Bryce sets out to do something, he does it! He is always expanding his reach in the exotic male dancer entertainment industry. A little over three years ago he started the Men Of Eden, a male dancer agency that provides dancers for clubs and events. They currently appear each Wednesday night at Trevi Lounge in Fairfield, CT. They can also be seen at other area clubs. That is why I chose Uptown Funk as the song for this blog. Click play and look back over the hot pics of Bryce. The words, "Don't Believe Me Just Watch", describe Bryce. Whatever he sets his mind to do, he will do!

Photo Source: Bryce Adonis

Photo Source: Bryce Adonis   With Holly Dae and Ricky Roman

Photo Source: Bryce Adonis

Photo Source: Bryce Adonis   With Ricky Roman
   If you get the opportunity to tip Bryce Adonis in person, tell him Mike from Males In Motion says hello! Tip his hot ass once for me. Until next time, get naked!!!

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Sunday, June 25, 2017

Grooming For The Exotic Male Dancer -- These Tips And Suggestions Will Work For Dancers -- As Well As Customers

Photo Source: Males In Motion   Model: Clay
   Those of you who know me in person, know that this is not an area that I'm an expert in. Now, that doesn't mean that I walk around like a Neanderthal. I'm just saying that there are other people in this world who have a much better grasp on this topic than I do. So, hopefully in this blog I can provide a few links or embed a few videos that will help those of you who might be looking for tips and suggestions on grooming and personal hygiene. You'll find links and clips at the end of this blog.

Photo Source: Men Of Skin   Dancer: Zephrim
   While doing some basic online research for this blog, I came across and watched many YouTube videos that provide tips and suggestions for everything from skin care to removing hair from your butt hole. There are various schools of thought on body hair. There is one group that promote keeping everything natural. There is another group that think everything should be shaved. What do you think?

Photo Source: Piranha Nightclub ~ Las Vegas, NV   Dancer: Gio
   As a customer and fan of exotic male dancers, I expect the male dancers to be clean, well groomed, have fresh breath, smell nice, and keep their bodies in great shape. A customer and fan should think about some of these issues as well. After a few drinks, have you ever considered the effect your breath has on those around you? And a hard night of partying can sometimes work up a sweat. When you lean in to tip that male dancer, are you offending his sense of smell? Is he offending you?
   There are five areas of personal grooming that should be important to the exotic male dancer: Hair Care, Nail Care, Skin Care, Fresh Breath and Body Fragrance. And this is barely scratching the surface. The beauty of the internet is that you can find 'how to' videos on everything you can imagine. So, if there is a topic in which you'd like more information than I have listed, you can Google it and find enough material to either watch or read and keep you busy for weeks. You can also search YouTube and find many, many related videos. I've added a few below that I felt could provide some basic grooming tips. I haven't touched on skin care for the most part. That can be different for various skin types.
10 Grooming Tips
   It's important for a male dancer to take care of the hair on his head, face and body. Below is a YouTube video from Alex Costa with 10 grooming tips. There are tips for body hair care, fragrance, nail care and more.
Butt Hair Removal
   I'm simply putting this in here because it might be a need for some. Also,the guy is humorous as well. Butt, if it helps someone with their grooming practices, then it is worth posting.
Bad Breath Remedy
   This video has some good suggestions with a full course of humor thrown in.
Natural Bad Breath Removal
   For those of you who like to follow a natural remedy for bad breath here is a video for you.
10 Grooming Hacks
   This guy promotes a couple of products in the video but he has several ideas that just might work for you.
Mens Style And Grooming Routine
   This guide for a grooming routine is based on Wella products. I don't make any money off of these products, but the guy is so hot, and it never hurts to add more eye candy into a blog. Enjoy! You're welcome! And he does actually have some good grooming tips.
   There are customers who like the musky smell of a natural man. I myself prefer a whiff of a nice cologne. There are customers who prefer longer hair on a male dancer. I myself like short hair. There are customers who like a man with a hairy chest and facial hair. I prefer smooth or trimmed chest. And as for facial hair, it just depends but I do like scruff. My advice about grooming is to base it all on what brings in the most tips. If you don't know what the customers like, ask them. Until next time, happy grooming!


Photo Source: Males In Motion

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Tuesday, May 30, 2017

Now Move Your Ass... I Like That ... Getting Dirty With Reggie Cox ... The Males In Motion May Obsession

Photo Source: Reggie Cox Facebook Page   Photo by: Art Photaug
   Let's just make it clear from the start...sometimes I get naughty, or should I say dirty thoughts. Yes, try as I might to be all good inside, sometimes I just can't help it. I really, really sort of want to be good but there are times when it just ain't gonna happen. Honestly, it's not my fault. I blame it on exotic male dancers like Reggie Cox. I mean, just look at that body in the pic above. How in the hell, is a gay man or straight woman suppose to look at that and not think of ideas that involve entertaining Reggie in a more horizontal position. And even Andrew Christian liked the pic above when Reggie got a shout out from him for wearing his AC brand underwear. And Reggie does wear them oh so well.

Photo Source: Reggie Cox Facebook Page   Photo by: Black Rose Photography
   And just look at those eyes... let me repeat, I said "look at those eyes." This isn't working. Here, let's try this again. Keep reading below.

Photo Source: Reggie Cox Facebook Page   Photo by: Black Rose Photography
   Now, just look at those eyes... wait, you're still not looking at the eyes. Let's try this one more time.

Photo Source: Reggie Cox Facebook Page   Photo by: Black Rose Photography
   Ok, that's better. Just look at those eyes. How is one suppose to resist thinking dirty thoughts when you look at that face and those blue eyes? It's impossible. (OK, go ahead and scroll back up and get a good look at the pic above, then come back and join me below.)

Photo Source: Reggie Cox Facebook Page   Photo by: Black Rose Photography
   And just when maybe you think you've got things under control, Reggie does a little tease move like in the pic above, pulling down one side of his underwear, and then, your whole resolve is shattered. Not to mention when you go up and tip him and slide a dollar, or two, or three or... inside that waistband. Just thinking about it has veered my mental images in a dirty direction.

Photo Source: Reggie Cox Facebook Page   Photo by: Black Rose Photography
   Well, that's just not fair. Look at that sly smile on his face. That smile says to me that he knows what affect he is having on me. He knows where my thoughts are at. I might as well give up on trying to be good. Dang, look at that ass!

Photo Source: Reggie Cox Facebook Page   Photo by: Black Rose Photography
   Now you've gone and done it! He isn't wearing a stitch of clothes. Well, maybe one or two stitches are in that hat. And this is exactly how you'll find him on Sundays in Tampa, Florida as part of the Full Nude Male Revue at Skin Tampa. The ladies, or female dancers, step aside on Sunday night and the men step in. Click on ad below for more info.
   I've chosen Christina Aguilera's song "Dirrty" for this blog so you can listen and have dirty thoughts as you look at the pics of Reggie. Don't even try to deny it. You know you will. And we won't believe you if you say you're going to try and be good.

Photo Source: Reggie Cox Facebook Page   Photo by: Art Photaug
   Reggie performs at other clubs in the Tampa Bay and Sarasota, Florida areas. Check out his Facebook page or other social media sources to find out where and when he'll be performing. Links to several sources for Reggie are below. You'll definitely want to check out his Instagram account. He has posted some very hot pics there that are not on his Facebook page. You go ahead and read below, I'm going to stay here for a few minutes and think about the color red.

Photo Source: Reggie Cox Facebook Page   Photo by: SOL photos
   We selected Reggie to be our Males In Motion May Obsession because frankly we have become obsessed with Reggie. We've been following him online for several months. We even made a trip to Florida in April hoping to see him while there but unfortunately missed him. Our schedules didn't work out with his performance dates. However, we'll get back down there. That's just how an obsession works. In the meantime, I'll just have to keep enjoying my dirty thoughts about Reggie. That will be easy. Well some things will be easy, others might be harder. (Yes, I said it and I'm going to leave it right there.)

Photo Source: Reggie Cox Facebook Page

Photo Source: Reggie Cox Facebook Page   Photo by: Black Rose Photography
   This is the time of year that many folks are preparing for a summer trip to Florida. I recommend the Tampa Bay area. I also recommend that you plan a Sunday night at Skin and watch the boys at the Full Nude Male Revue. And definitely, I recommend that you find out where Reggie will be performing while you are in the area. You owe it to yourself to go enjoy a night of dirty thoughts! Until next time, keep sliding those dollars in those waistbands...and beyond!
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Thursday, May 25, 2017

The Corner Pocket ~ New Orleans, Louisiana ... My Kind Of Party!

   Every year for my birthday, I always want to spend it where I can tip the dancing boys. And when it comes to celebrations and having a party, I know of no better city to party in than New Orleans. So, as an early birthday celebration, I visited the Crescent City and of course, spent a large portion of my time at The Corner Pocket.
   I'd rather celebrate birthdays by enjoying a new experience rather than receiving a tangible gift. Don't get me wrong, I like gifts that I can 'hold in my hands'. However, an experience like what can be found at The Corner Pocket is one-of-a-kind. And since The Corner Pocket is one of my favorite places in the male stripper world, I love drinking', tipping' and playin' with the boys on the bar. It's a perfect way to celebrate getting another year older.
   When I know I'll be going to The Corner Pocket, I ALWAYS plan for two days of fun, instead of one. And on this visit, the bar was full on Friday and Saturday night with both customers and the number of dancers. From the moment your greeted at the door by Barry, you know you've walked in to somewhere special.
   There were around 30 male dancers at The Corner Pocket each night we were there. The boys step up on the bar for their sessions, usually 4 to 5 at a time. Their names are announced by the lovely and talented Lisa Beaumont. They rotate around the bar greeting customers, receiving tips, and providing some very nice eye candy.
   During those sessions and rotations, I especially enjoyed the company of a few specific dancers. Alex (in pic above and top) interacts with the customers in a fun, sensual and entertaining way. He also has a few costume or prop surprises that keeps things interesting. I was glad to see Alex was dancing both nights.
   Chris stood out for working a unitard and doing it well. He was cute and a favorite of the night. Ace and Cody were two others that stood out for me. Ace had the best defined body. Cody was a cutie. I enjoyed tipping each of these dancers! My partner also had a favorite and spent a lot of time tipping Michael S.

Photo Source: The Corner Pocket
   There is one dancer that I haven't mentioned yet because he is my Corner Pocket favorite. Mitchell (above) has been dancing at The Corner Pocket on my past two visits. When Mitchell is in the house, all he has to do is walk by and I'll start sticking dollars in his waistband. He has a tight body, amazing ass and bulges to capacity in any pair of underwear he wants to wear. He knows how to play the stripper game. He is the type of male dancer that keeps the fans and customers wanting to return. Honestly, if he were the only dancer for the night, I would still have a great time. Of course, I might have to elbow a few other customers out of the way to tip him. But fortunately at The Corner Pocket, there are plenty of dancers to go around, and everyone gets to have fun!
   With New Orleans and The Corner Pocket, you can always count on large parties during the major events and holidays. In September the gay community descends upon the French Quarter with a Southern Decadence (use Southern Decadence as both a noun and a verb). The ghouls, goblins and sexy boys come out during Halloween. And those of you in cooler northern climates need to drop down to N'ahlins for New Year's Eve and ring in the new year Cajun style. But wait, there's more.
   Unless you've been living under a rock, you have heard tales being told about Mardi Gras with King cakes, doubloons, beads, and parades. Keep following the calendar because you'll still find more partying for St. Patrick's Day, and even a huge Gay Easter party and parade! New Orleans is also an excellent place to celebrate Pride! Make The Corner Pocket your home base for all the events and activities.
   Some of the dancers from The Corner Pocket participated in an Easter Fundraiser at the House Of Blues. We borrowed their pic for an Easter Day social media post (above). For more on Easter in New Orleans, click here. Many of the celebrations listed in this blog are also fund raisers for some very worthy causes. Clink on any of the links in the text, or in the links below to find out more.
   I recommend The Corner Pocket and New Orleans as a destination for any of your yearly celebrations, vacations or weekend getaways. And be sure you plan for two nights at The Corner Pocket. One is never enough!
   Until next time, Save The Bulge! Tip the dancing boys! Support your local dick dancer bars and clubs!

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Photo Source: Males In Motion