Male Stripper Costume Tip 8: Selecting Exotic Male Dancer Costumes

Photo Source: G Lounge ~ NYC

If you're in it to make money, then stand out from the rest! I've mentioned before that sexy underwear is great and the fans love it! But try adding something that tugs at the fantasies of the crowd. This will help your tips to increase, and your customers to return again and again.

I recommend that you go for a specific look and then add a costume within that look. Let me explain. There are a few basic types that stir the imaginations of your fans. These include the boy toy, physical perfection, the beast, and the out-of-reach straight guy. You may be able to play each of these roles, or a combination of them at once.

Photo Source: Photo by C. Marcelo. In photo: Joey from BJsNXs in Dallas

The Boy Toy is a fantasy of many 'mature' men and women. A hot, sexy or beautiful young man who exists for their pleasure. He's the type of person who might be taken care of by a sugar daddy or sugar momma. His role is to always look good and give attention to the person who is showing interest. He is generally slim to muscular. The Boy Toy plays the game that if the customer tips right, there may be other opportunities for play later. I'm not saying there will be. I'm saying that's the game. To dress as the Boy Toy select underwear and costume items to fit...examples would be Robin, the Boy Wonder; sports themes (football receiver, baseball catcher, soccer player); pool boy; skate boarder; and college student. The non-themed self-created fashion statement costumes would fit in this category as well.

Photo Source: Share Nightclub ~ Las Vegas, NV

The dancer who who can pull off Physical Perfection is the one who has the face, athletic body, and of course is hung! He's the one that makes many weak in the knees. He is the jock, the fantasy lover, the superhero, the star quarterback, and more. His role is to promote the image of sexual prowess. He is the one who will be the best, shall I say it...best fuck! He is more likely to be in charge of any sexual situation. His game goes like this, 'yes, you can have me but it is going to cost you, but I'll be worth it'. It doesn't mean he's a sure thing and you'll get what you want. It just means that he can tease you and you'll love every minute of it. To dress as the adonis select underwear and costume items that accentuate the body and puts it on display. Underwear should pull 'the boys' forward and cling so there's very little left to the imagination. When possible a jockstrap should be included to allow a view of the perfect bubble butt. Costume themes include Superhero, military, sports superstar, motorcycle rider, fireman and cowboy.

Photo Source: Michael Hill Digital In Photo: Baron/Jake, Andrew Christian Model and Male Dancer with Men Of Skin ~ Kansas City, MO

The Beast represents the larger than life type character. This can include the body builder, the leather master in control, or a supernatural being. The beast is the overpowering presence to whom the fan gives in and becomes submissive. His game is 'I am in control and I will do with you as I wish. I will treat you as I wish and you will like it.' To dress as the beast means everything is planned out and displays dominance. Costumes would include leather master, police and authority figures, military leadership, supernatural creatures like the wolfman, vampire, X-men and others. Boots of different types can represent dominance. It's sexy to display confidence, but avoid arrogance, conceit or superiority. Emphasize I'm in control and I know how to make you enjoy it.

Photo Source: Michael Hill Digital In Photo: Buck Stone, Male Dancer and Entertainer

Photo Source: Michael Hill Digital In Photo: Jacob, Male Model

The out-of-reach straight guy is the boy next door or the hottie in the house down the street. He's the type of person who may be an executive in suit and tie by day but party animal at night. He may also be the pizza delivery boy or the fraternity guy at the local college. He's straight and likes the ladies but just maybe, under the right circumstances, he might look in the direction of the gay guy. He's the one that knows you check him out when he's laying out by the pool catching some sun. He also knows that you watch his ass as he walks by. He doesn't mind, in fact, he's kind of flattered. The out-of-reach straight guy is more an attitude than a costume. He's the guy that can tease that he's straight, 'but for you, I might change...'. The attitude is one of confidence but not arrogance or vanity. Costumes include accessories like baseball caps and other hats, sunglasses or eyeglasses, neck jewelry, and neckties. The out-of-reach straight guy is not as body conscious. He has a nice body but he isn't obsessed with carbs, exercise or the six-pack.

Photo Source: Michael Hill Digital In Photo: Male Dancer Achilles, at an appearance at Mojo's ~ Tulsa, OK

All of these types will attract different fans. Create a personal wardrobe of dance costumes that will appeal to different personalities. Try different costumes on the same night and see what gets attention. Some of you are destined to play one particular role due to your body build or personality, But that's not a negative, since you know what type you are, build on it and learn to work it for the cash.

Until next time, FYI...I am attracted to boy toys and physical perfection. Play that role on me and I'm easy. The money in my pocket will become yours. And as I've said many times before, if you're able to throw on a pair of cowboy boots and a cowboy hat, well, I'll be broke before the night is over. And please, don't show me where the ATM machine is, I'll need to save some cash for my monthly bills.

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