Saturday, February 15, 2014

Change Is The Only Sure Thing!
Catch the hot boys while you can!

(Photo Source: Eleven Nightclub Facebook Page)
   I've been in this business over 10 years. One thing I know is that nothing ever stays the same. Dancers come and go. Clubs come and go. Managers come and go. There's a constant flux in the exotic male dancer entertainment industry.
(Photo Source: Men Of Eden Facebook Page)
   And change is good. Unless they keep reinventing themselves, male dancers can stay too long in the industry. This will result in boredom, negative attitudes, stale performances and loss of interest among the customers and fans.
(Photo Source: Ethan's Facebook Page)
   Today's instant social media has contributed to the increase in the speed at which entertainment can become old, and labeled "last year's version". I encourage all dancers, club managers and owners, event promoters, etc., to take some time this winter and find some fresh ideas. But before you start scrambling to find that new idea, next big thing, etc. Stop and take a look at your customer service.
(Photo Source: MJ's Bar Facebook Page)
   In the remainder of 2014, I encourage everyone involved in the exotic male dancer entertainment industry to think inside the box, not outside. The first place to start is your regular customers. Evaluate your customer service level. Do your customers feel special when they spend their money at your location or event? Have you gone out of your way to make them feel appreciated for their loyalty to you? We often try to find that next big event, or in this case, that next 10" dick or amazing bubble butt. But it has been proven that attention to your customers is most important.
(Photo Source: Men Of Skin Facebook Page)
   I review bars, clubs and events with exotic male dancers on a regular basis. The first and most important evaluation results from how I am treated by the male dancers. If a dancer has the mentality that the world revolves around him and waits to be worshiped and adored, well, as far as I'm concerned he can wait. If he doesn't try to 'work me' or at least speak to me, then I'm going to ignore him. Yes, I go to the club for eye candy. However, I remain at the club and return in the future because that eye candy gave me some attention.
(Photo Source: Rich's San Diego Facebook Page)
   I have said this so many times but I guess it isn't getting out... If I tip a male dancer while he is dancing during his session, and he says thank you, then I will tip him again during his next session. If he drops by my table after he finishes and says thanks, I'm going to tip him again. If he gives me a hug, etc., then I'm going to tip him again. It's not rocket science. Work me for the cash. And when I say 'me' in this ... I am talking about most customers who are like me and there are many. They've walked through the doors to see pretty boys in their underwear or less. They are easy.
(Photo Source: Here Lounge Facebook Page)
   I have made friends at many different clubs in cities across the U.S. I still receive fb messages, pics and invitations from exotic male dancers around the country. Some have become good friends, others are working me. Do I care? Hell no! When a hot male dancer is sending me a personal invitation to come back and see him, and includes a hot pic, I start looking at my calendar and seeing when I can make my next trip in their direction. Yes, it's been established that I'm easy when it comes to exotic male dancers. But, who do you think will be the first dancer I tip when I walk in to the door of that bar or club. Yep.
   I wish much success in 2014 to all bars, clubs, events, owners, manager, male dancers, etc. who are involved in the exotic male dancer industry. It is my favorite form of entertainment. I want you around when I visit your city. Until next time, send me that personal invitation and a hot pic. But not just to me, send them to all your loyal customers and fans. (And those receiving them, don't forget to tip the boyz before they've moved on!!!)


  1. Wow, they are all gorgeous male strippers, where is this place by the way?

    1. There's a link beneath each of the pics. Click on it and you'll be taken to their facebook page or website. Enjoy!