Thursday, February 20, 2014

Did The Cock Measure Up?
Falling A Little Limp In NYC

(Photo Source: The Cock Bar Facebook Page)
"Next time I go back, I'll go on a Friday or Saturday."
Our friend and guest blogger, Cobalt King reflects on a recent visit to The Cock in NYC.
   In an appropriately un-gentrified section of lower Manhattan, The Cock holds an unassuming spot on 2nd Ave, with a small and dark street presence. The only way to recognize the place is by the neon red 'rooster' on the front of the building. Upon entering, I'm greeted
by a hulking dude with a genuine smile, but with an ominous warning. "That'll be $5 (it was a Tuesday). Keep your phone and your money in your front pocket and if you go outside, don't talk to people on the street who approach you. Tell them I said so."
   Once inside, I had to wait for my eyes to adjust to the darkness. I checked my coat and my shirt with the very friendly clothes check station attendant. I noted a young, athletic dancer on the bar,
wearing just a jockstrap, and I asked the coat check guy if there is a place for private dances. He said there's not, but it's up to the dancer. (I had heard wild stories of nakedness on the bar, and nights where half the patrons were also naked -or nearly naked. But this night appeared to be tame.) I bought a beer from the bartender (they do not sell non-alcoholic beers, in case you're looking for that... and I was, so I could maintain reasonable judgement... but I ended up just having some beers (at $5 each, I think).
   I watched the lone bar dancer gyrate and show his naked ass to the room of about 20 guys. But the dancer did not turn around. He kept looking at the wall and dancing with his ass to the crowd. I found my way to him and tipped pretty lucratively, trying to get him to turn around, but I couldn't get him to turn all the way around. The dancer smiled sweetly, but I couldn't hear him very well because of the small room and the loud music. His body was tight, but he was not engaged with his audience. I felt like I had to work to get his attention...
and I was the only one tipping.
(Photo Source: Wilson Models)
   I retreated to the center of the room and scanned the crowd. It was dark, but I could see the guys lining the walls and sitting in the bench seats along the perimeter. The room looked like it was about 25 x 50 feet (not including the bar space), so it could have been super intimate as the crowd grew. I asked the bartender when the other dancers would be rotating onto the bar and he said there was only one dancer that night. However, a little later, another guy showed up, quickly got undressed and hopped up on the bar. I don't think he got the message about engaging his audience either because he was a handsome and fit young man, but did not try to even make eye contact with the customers lining the bar.
   As I was contemplating leaving, guys started streaming into the place. I had arrived a little after midnight, and it was nearly 2:00 am by this time. It didn't occur to me that the place would heat up after then. But it did. Despite the crowd, and the palpable feeling of something dirty about to happen, and the odd juxtaposition of two nearly naked guys in a room full of guys with heavy winter shirts .... I still felt like there was something about the place which made it safe... Next time I go back, I'll go on a Friday or Saturday to see if all the stories of debauchery are true. but for this customer, who is 6'2 and 245 lbs, The Cock was entertaining, but just a little low-key for the kind of edgy sexually charged environment I was looking for.
(Photo Source: Wilson Models)

   Special thanks to Cobalt King for sharing his experience.

Saturday, February 15, 2014

Change Is The Only Sure Thing!
Catch the hot boys while you can!

(Photo Source: Eleven Nightclub Facebook Page)
   I've been in this business over 10 years. One thing I know is that nothing ever stays the same. Dancers come and go. Clubs come and go. Managers come and go. There's a constant flux in the exotic male dancer entertainment industry.
(Photo Source: Men Of Eden Facebook Page)
   And change is good. Unless they keep reinventing themselves, male dancers can stay too long in the industry. This will result in boredom, negative attitudes, stale performances and loss of interest among the customers and fans.
(Photo Source: Ethan's Facebook Page)
   Today's instant social media has contributed to the increase in the speed at which entertainment can become old, and labeled "last year's version". I encourage all dancers, club managers and owners, event promoters, etc., to take some time this winter and find some fresh ideas. But before you start scrambling to find that new idea, next big thing, etc. Stop and take a look at your customer service.
(Photo Source: MJ's Bar Facebook Page)
   In the remainder of 2014, I encourage everyone involved in the exotic male dancer entertainment industry to think inside the box, not outside. The first place to start is your regular customers. Evaluate your customer service level. Do your customers feel special when they spend their money at your location or event? Have you gone out of your way to make them feel appreciated for their loyalty to you? We often try to find that next big event, or in this case, that next 10" dick or amazing bubble butt. But it has been proven that attention to your customers is most important.
(Photo Source: Men Of Skin Facebook Page)
   I review bars, clubs and events with exotic male dancers on a regular basis. The first and most important evaluation results from how I am treated by the male dancers. If a dancer has the mentality that the world revolves around him and waits to be worshiped and adored, well, as far as I'm concerned he can wait. If he doesn't try to 'work me' or at least speak to me, then I'm going to ignore him. Yes, I go to the club for eye candy. However, I remain at the club and return in the future because that eye candy gave me some attention.
(Photo Source: Rich's San Diego Facebook Page)
   I have said this so many times but I guess it isn't getting out... If I tip a male dancer while he is dancing during his session, and he says thank you, then I will tip him again during his next session. If he drops by my table after he finishes and says thanks, I'm going to tip him again. If he gives me a hug, etc., then I'm going to tip him again. It's not rocket science. Work me for the cash. And when I say 'me' in this ... I am talking about most customers who are like me and there are many. They've walked through the doors to see pretty boys in their underwear or less. They are easy.
(Photo Source: Here Lounge Facebook Page)
   I have made friends at many different clubs in cities across the U.S. I still receive fb messages, pics and invitations from exotic male dancers around the country. Some have become good friends, others are working me. Do I care? Hell no! When a hot male dancer is sending me a personal invitation to come back and see him, and includes a hot pic, I start looking at my calendar and seeing when I can make my next trip in their direction. Yes, it's been established that I'm easy when it comes to exotic male dancers. But, who do you think will be the first dancer I tip when I walk in to the door of that bar or club. Yep.
   I wish much success in 2014 to all bars, clubs, events, owners, manager, male dancers, etc. who are involved in the exotic male dancer industry. It is my favorite form of entertainment. I want you around when I visit your city. Until next time, send me that personal invitation and a hot pic. But not just to me, send them to all your loyal customers and fans. (And those receiving them, don't forget to tip the boyz before they've moved on!!!)

Thursday, February 6, 2014

They'll Steal Your Heart
Exotic Male Dancers Who Have Grabbed
Our Attention!

(Photo Source: Michael Hill Digital)

   You've been talking about them and we've been listening. We're listing eight exotic male dancers that our blog readers and Facebook friends have been talking about. It seems they have stolen the hearts of their fans and we think that's something to celebrate for this Valentine's season!

(Photo Source: Evan's Facebook Albums)
   The first time you see a pic of Evan there is obviously a 'wow' factor that engages. Evan has so many 'talents and attributes' that he's worth a face-to-face or face-to-? visit at a Club where he performs. Check his Facebook page to find where his talents are being displayed this week.

(Photo Source: Brenden-John)
   Chris has become one of our favorite head-turners from Southern California. And it doesn't matter what he wears, he ALWAYS looks good! He is expertly presented often in the work of photographer Brenden-John.
(Photo Source: Allan Spiers)
   The combination of great humor and a hot body is lethal. That's what you get with Victor. Catch him at Spin's famous Shower Show in Chicago!
(Photo Source: C. Marcelo)
   It's easy to fall under the spell of Joey. We at Males In Motion have done it several times. He remains a favorite of our readers and one of our's as well. Click here and check out our previous blog featuring Joey.
(Photo Source: Chino's Facebook Page)
   Chino is one exotic male dancer that I can speak about from a personal perspective. He can be compared to a dining experience at an exclusive restaurant. Everything is the right temperature, seasoned to perfection, and matched with a fine wine. There is so much about Chino to enjoy that it's hard to point out one particular attribute. Chino performs at Boxers N Briefs near St. Louis, MO. He's extremely photogenic. I've told him before that it is impossible for him to take a bad pic. And in case you didn't know...Boxers N Briefs is a fully nude club!

(Photo Source: Chris Harder Facebook Page)
   Chris Harder is an entertainer extraordinaire. You can see him as a vaudeville style burlesque performer, go-go boy, porn star, and so much more. His fan base keeps growing and it's no wonder. He's one of the hardest men working in the industry these days. Check him out and see what all the fuss is about!
(Photo Source: Bryce's Facebook Page)
   Bryce is no stranger to the Males In Motion blogs. He keeps popping up. He's the hot, sexy, foul-mouthed, smart ass of the exotic male dancer entertainment industry. And we and many other fans love him because of it. He's appeared at many clubs including Xroom, The Hartford Polo Club, Partners Cafe New Haven, Adonis Lounge (NYC)...and this year he has started his own male revue with the Men Of Eden.

Click here to read our previous review of Bryce and click here to read our blog featuring the Men Of Eden.

   You can reach the Facebook pages for these dancers by clicking on their pics above. Have a great Valentine's Day (Week, Month, Year)!!! Until next time, let us know which male dancers have stolen your heart. Let them know this week in your tips!!

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