Saturday, April 19, 2014

Surprise me!
The Unexpected Can Be Lots Of Fun!

   There I was, my legs in the air and he was... No, really, I was. So, it went like this. I stopped in at Mojo's in Tulsa on Friday night. Due to commitments in my life, I had been unable to get away for several weeks. It was time. I had to get out of the house and get back to having a life. A drive to Tulsa was in order.
(Photo Source: Michael Hill Digital)
   My partner and I arrived early so we could visit with good friends at the bar. We were fortunate because several of them were already there or arrived soon after we did. I was enjoying my Dirty Martini, made to perfection by bartender Brandon, when a slim, yet defined tattooed red headed dancer in bright green underwear approached. He introduced himself and said thanks for coming out. Magnum is his dancer name. Well, if you know me at all, you know at that point, I was hooked.
   I watched as he made his way around the room introducing himself to the other customers. It's like he had pulled a page out of my guide book and was following it step-by-step. His enthusiasm was contagious and I was happy to see it. Of course, I had to take a few pics. I took a few while he danced his session at the pole and then once finished, I asked him to allow me to take a couple at the back platform. He graciously agreed. I tipped him for the pics at the pole. The next thing I know, unexpectedly, I am being bent over and my backside had become a target. As I said, "The unexpected can be lots of fun!". I tipped again at the platform.
   Sometime later as I was sitting at the bar, I was turned around on my bar stool, my legs raised in the air and well, it was Magnum. Once again, I had become a target. This time there was a new surprise. I felt some type of vibration. And yes, it could have been that (you have a dirty mind and I like it), but I do believe it was of the electronic type. I asked him, "What is that?" He replied, "It's my secret." Well, I guess I just let the secret out, but hey, it will still be fun for those who have yet to experience Magnum. Of course, I felt obligated to run my hand across his defined chest and flat stomach. You know, some things you just have to do for the cause of all male dancer fans everywhere.
   Until next time, I hope you find some unexpected fun (and vibrations). And don't forget to tip him when you do! And if you liked this story, you should have seen the guy who had the birthday celebration! Yep, I think that type of celebration with Magnum and the Men of Mojo's could make me celebrate my birthday every week! Woot!

Thursday, April 10, 2014

Dancers Who Do!
Top Ten Times To Thank Male Dancer Fans

(Photo Source: Michael Hill Digital) Jake is a Andrew Christian model and member of the male revue, Men Of Skin from Kansas City, MO.

   The blog I wrote about my recent experience in Dallas received a lot of feedback through emails, comments, Facebook messages, etc. So, I decided to help my exotic male dancer friends with a few small ways they can be friendly and increase their tips. This blog deals with the simple act of saying "Thank you". I've included pics of male dancers who are doing it right. These guys are customer focused and successful! They're also some of my favorites.
Top 10 Times To Thank Male Dancer Fans
1. When they enter the door.
Everyone from doormen, dancers, bartenders and staff.
Say "Thank you for coming out tonight!"
Say "Thank you for coming to [insert name of your club or event]! Enjoy the boyz!"
2. When they buy a drink
(soda, beer, wine, shot, cocktail, etc.)
Bartenders, shot boys, barbacks and staff. Say "Thank you! Let me know when you're ready for another one!"
3. When they tip.
(Anyone who gets a tip.)
Say "Thank you."
Say "Thank you baby!"
Say "Thank you sweetheart."

4. When they buy you a drink.
Anyone they buy a drink for... Say "Thank you."
5. When they wait on someone before them
Any time they show courtesy and patience
Say "Thank you for being patient."
Say "Thank you for hanging around."
(Photo Source: Michael Hill Digital) Houston dances at Boxers N Briefs in St. Louis, MO.

6. When they make you smile.
Remember your smile is one of your sexiest features.
Say "Thank you for making me smile."
Say "Thank you for making my night."
7. When they compliment you.
You work hard to look good. It was noticed.
Say "Thank you for noticing."
Say "Thank you very much."
8. When they take a picture of you.
They are a fan.
Say "Thank you, will you tag me on facebook when you post it."
Say "Thanks for standing (or sitting, etc.) with me."
9. When you remember them from a previous event or night.
A return visit is important and means a lot!
Say "Thank you for coming out again."
Say "Thanks for coming to see me again."
(Photo Source: Joey's Facebook) Joey is often featured at the Tin Room and other clubs in Dallas, but travels to other cities and locations as well. He was recently voted Best Exotic Dancer in Dallas by the Dallas Voice.

10. When they are leaving.
They will remember you for next time.
Say "Thank you for coming out. Hope to see you next time."
Say "Thanks again for being here tonight."
Say "Thanks for the tips. It is much appreciated."

   Let me also take this opportunity to say thank you! Thank you to the dancing boyz who make this blog possible! Thank you to the club and bar owners and managers for providing opportunities for us fans to see the boys! And THANK YOU to all of you exotic male dancer fans who tip the boys, read this blog, visit my Facebook page and website and help keep this industry going! You all are appreciated! Until next time, don't forget to tip the boyz!