Thursday, May 31, 2018

The Tip Jar: Be Smart And Avoid The Ugly Side Of Exotic Male Dancers

 
   Is there an ugly side to male dancers? Well, maybe not the exotic male dancers themselves but there is an ugly side to the business. Most customers and fans are amazing, but as we unfortunately know, there are people who do not have the best intentions toward others. Hopefully, I can provide a few tips and suggestions that will help the male dancer to play it safe.

 

Photo Source: Michael Hill Digital
 
   I recommend that you never allow anyone at the bar to buy you a drink and bring it to you. If they want to buy you a drink, go with them to the bar and watch the bartender make it and hand it to you. Do not allow another person to carry it to you. The wrong person could slip something into your drink. The motives for their behavior could be varied. Some might want to get you into a situation where their advances cannot be refused. Others just might want to fuck you up. Be smart.

 
 
   Keep your tips, clothing and belongings locked up. It is the hope that bars and clubs will have lockers that can be locked where you can store your belongings while dancing. Unfortunately, this is not always the case. I recommend that you find a room, an office, etc., where you can lock up your belongings. And I hate to say it, but if possible, lock them up where other dancers cannot get to them as well. I've heard many stories from male dancers about having a great night in tips only to have them stolen by some gutter trash. Sometimes it was by customers who had gained access to locations where the dancers had left their belongings. And other times it has been other dancers or staff members who have had sticky fingers. If needed, have someone you trust keep your belongings and tips while you are performing. Be smart.

 

Photo Source: Nick DiCristina
 
   If you drive to a bar or club, make sure any valuables are locked safely away, or at the least, put them out of sight. There are some locations with security staff that patrol the parking areas. But many do not. Bars and clubs are prime targets for late night thieves to break in and take your possessions. If they want something bad enough, they will break a window. Park in a well-lit area. Hide your possessions. Roll up the windows and lock the doors before getting out. Be smart.

 

Photo Source: Monster Bar - NYC
 
   When leaving the bar or club after you've completed your dancing obligation, I recommend that you walk out with at least one other person. This is no time to be macho. Have club security go with you, or at the least, have them watch you from the door until you get in your car and drive off. Everyone in the club has watched tips being placed in your underwear during the night. This makes you a target when you come out of the venue and head to your vehicle. If you've had a good night in tips, the amount you are carrying on your person in cash could be substantial. Never walk by yourself, particularly if you were not able to park close to the club. If you are a block or more away, have someone walk with you and then if needed, drive them back to the club. Be smart.

 
 
   Don't get fucked up at a gig! Do not get drunk! Do not get high! Keep your head straight. Getting drunk or high will only make it easy for someone to take advantage. They could relieve you of your tips without your knowing. They may relieve their other urges without your consent because you are unable to comprehend what is actually going on until it is too late. And you might not mind those nude photos of you that are floating around on the internet but you can't remember when they were taken. And I mean, if you're going to do nude photos, well, at least talk to a photographer like me who will be happy to take them for you in a safe and professional environment. Be smart.
 
   Until next time, be safe! And we'll see you at the club with dollars in hand!

 
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Wednesday, May 16, 2018

Big D Rises To The Occasion~Zippers-Dallas, TX ~ Club Review


Photo Source: Zippers Facebook
 
   When you find a great experience and want to enjoy it to its fullest, well, there is no reason to leave. So, The night's plan totally fell apart! It was suppose to be a Saturday night of club hopping to check out the current male dancer offerings in Dallas. But it never happened. You see, I started the night at Zippers and I never left. I stayed right there at the bar and had more fun than I've had in a long time.
 
NOTE: Photo above is not from this visit.
 
   I have always referred to Zippers as a dive bar. Now, I mean that in a very loving way. You see, dive bars are my favorite kind of venue with male dancers. Zippers isn't dirty or scuzzy, It's just an older building with a bar that has been there for a while. It's not a bar of flash and glitz. It's a bar of real people having real fun. That is my favorite type of bar. But there was more ...
 
   You enter Zippers from a side street. The entrance is at the left corner of the building. When you enter, you are immediately greeted with the sight of a male dancer on a small lighted stage in the opposite corner to the right. Turning left, you see a long bar in the middle of the room with stools around all four sides, the bartenders in the middle. At the back of the room is two more dancer stages, one on the left and one to the right. Going past the stages you will find bathrooms and then a back quiet area with a pool table. We made our way around to our left and found seats in the middle of the back side of the long bar so we could watch the dancers in both directions. The room is dark except for the lights on the dancer stages giving it a great atmosphere.
 

Photo Source: Zippers Facebook
 
   To some, sitting at the bar might not be a great experience but let's discuss all the elements that came together to make me want to hang around. Of course, the male dancers are the first ingredient but I'll discuss them later. The music selection was excellent! It was appropriate for the customers who on this night were all males in the 30 plus age range. The music was a mix of old and new. The volume was set where you could hear it well but could still talk with the bartenders and the person next to you. It worked for the dancers. It worked for the customers. And it worked for me! But there was more ...
 
   I had decided to have only one drink at Zippers because remember, the plan was to bar hop, so I started with a Dos Equis. I didn't want to hit the hard stuff since I would be moving around a lot. I was waited on by a bartender named Stormy. Stormy said he has been at Zippers for 22 years. He was a pleasure. I enjoyed visiting with him and he did a great job checking with us to make sure we were doing good on drinks. Stormy wasn't the only pleasure behind the bar. Another bartender named Eduardo was working the other end of the bar. Let's just say that I could have been happy just watching Eduardo do his thing. Muy guapo, handsome face and great body. He was clothed but it was obvious. But there was more...
 
   The next thing I know there is a barback who steps into the scene and right in front of me removes his shirt. He had one of those wiry muscular bodies that always catches my attention. His name was Johnathan. I tipped him and told him that was just to show my appreciation for the eye candy. I tipped him several times during the night. Being the ol' farts that we are, my partner Jay and I played dirty old men and watched Johnathan throughout the night. Our agreed upon adjective to describe him was 'adorable'. Johnathan said he had previously danced at the club and could be available for a lap dance. That didn't happen on this visit, but when I return to Dallas, I'm hoping Johnathan is still there, and I will make sure a lap dance with him is on the top of my list.
 

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Above: Dancer - Bryan        Photo Source: Bryan's Instagram
 
   There were five dancers working on this particular night. I interacted with three of them, Jay with one other and then a fifth dancer. We ran out of time and didn't make it to visit with him. But as with Johnathan, there's always next time. One of my favorite dancers of the night was Bryan. Bryan is tall and has an amazing body. He is currently preparing for a body building competition. His appearance is not that of the stereotypical body builder who has lost his neck. He is tall, muscular and lean all at the same time. I tipped Bryan first while he was dancing on one of the stages. At that time he let me know that lap dances were available. And of course, later that evening, I chose to treat myself. The lap dance was a set amount per song. I'm not going to give you any details because you need to experience a Bryan lap dance for yourself. All I'll say, is that if Bryan is available when I return to Dallas, I will do another lap dance with him, or maybe two... But there was more ...
 
   The dancer that Jay chose to tip was Jack Jr. He was tall and stocky. He was fun to watch because he could really dance and you could tell that he was having a good time doing it. While Jay was off tipping Jack Jr., I realized that we weren't going to go anywhere else. We were both having a really good time so, why leave? At this point, I instructed Stormy to make me a bartender's choice cocktail from vodka. I threw out the 'liquor before beer and all is in the clear' rule, and enjoyed something made with vodka and cranberry juice. I must have liked it because before the night was over, I had three more.
 
   Another of our favorite dancers was Theron. He is the ruggedly handsome type with a special gift. He is also a licensed masseuse. I had watched him give a shoulder and neck rub to a customer across the bar. I was green with envy and told Jay that if he'd come over and work on my neck, I'd start pulling the dollars out of my pocket and stuffing them in his underwear. And the gods heard me, because before much time had passed, he was over behind me working on my neck and shoulders. He did the same for Jay. At one point he told me to relax, my response, "I have a hot guy in his underwear rubbing on my body. How the hell am I suppose to relax?" But somehow, I managed to relax and enjoy the bliss.
 
 
   There was one other dancer that I had tipped during the night. His name was Alberto. I would have called it a good night if he had been the only dancer. He was sexy with a great body! Unfortunately, once again, I ran out of time and didn't get to spend much time with Alberto, but like I said, there's alway next time. And there will be a next time. And sooner if I can manage it.
 
Note: Photo above not from this visit.
 
   Big D rose to the occasion with my visit to Zippers. I have moved it up the list of my favorite bars with male dancers. As you have read, it was more than just one thing. There was a combination of music, bartenders, male dancers, shoulder rubs, adorable Johnathan and having fun with Jay. It all came together in Dallas and I can't wait to go back! Until next time, support the bulge! Tip the boys and keep them dancing in your local clubs.
 

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Photo Source: Michael Hill Digital

Monday, May 14, 2018

The Bulge - 11 Hot Social Media Finds Through- 5-13-2018 (NSFW)

   For the past several years, I have been posting my favorite pics of the week in a Facebook album. With the problems that Facebook is having with privacy, and the fact that they like to place me in FB jail for 30 days at least once a year, I decided to expand my horizons and create a monthly (or more often) blog where I feature pics and videos from across social media and websites. This way I can feature nudity without repercussion. This is the first of such blogs. If you find something you like, or if you have questions about anything that I have posted, please leave a comment below. Enjoy! (And just so you know, some things may get larger toward the end of the blog!)
 
#1
   Flexibility is always a positive characteristic to have! Don't you think?

 
#2
   We are happy to see thongs being worn more often by male dancers!
 
#3
   340 Nightclub in Pomona, CA is always stocked with well hung male dancers. The two pics above are only a small sample.

 
#4
   Jay, dancing at Club Cobra in North Hollywood, CA. He always presents a nice bulge. We recommend that you follow Club Cobra on Instagram. They frequently posts hot male dancers and bartenders shaking and bouncing with pleasure!

 
#5

Get those dollar πŸ’΅ out #GayVegas #piranhanightclub @piranhavegas

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   Male Dancer at Piranha Nightclub in Las Vegas. Great ass and bulge! Click play and watch him move it!

 
#6

   Not something you can show on Facebook. But we'll happily show it in our blog!

 
#7
   We're not a bulge only type of outfit, we like the hot butts also! Colin David Brandeberry, male dancer from Ohio, has recently shown up on our radar.

 
#8
Meanwhile in Paris, France. We thought this French butt was also worth sharing.

 
#9
   Willy, the Kid is a legendary British male dancer. We've shared pics of his in the past. Watch this video and you'll understand why we say legendary.

#10
Gio, below, is one of our long time favorites. He was featured in a Males In Motion blog as the February 2018 Obsession. Click here and check it out!

Photo Source: Michael Hill Digital

#11
   The boys at Stockbar in Montreal are always ready to provide a bulge! It is one of the best all-nude male strip clubs!

   We hope you have enjoyed our bulges and encourage you to "Support The Bulge!" in your local area. Until next time, we'll be stuffing dollars into magical places.
 

 
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Tuesday, March 13, 2018

The Tip Jar - New Blog Series - Suggestions and Ideas On How to Increase Tips for Exotic Male Dancers

 
   The Tip Jar can be found in a multitude of businesses in the U.S. First and foremost for me is that of the bartender. You'll usually find a glass cylinder, or sometimes an actual jar. From my past I can remember seeing the gallon size glass pickle jars serving as tip jars in some diners. When made of clear glass (as many are), it can serve as a subtle reminder to the current customer to give a tip and say thanks to the bartender for services rendered. And when cash is already present in said container, it can provide a psychological nudge to a customer showing that others have already given tips.
 

Photo Source: Males In Motion
 
   I always tip. It's just something I like to do. I'm sure part of that comes from my being a valet parker at a country club when I was in college. I understand those who work for tip money and I know how most of them appreciate it. I've also watched how hard these folks work on busy nights.
 
 
   I'll admit there is also an ulterior motive for tipping. If I tip a bartender well on a regular basis, that bartender will remember me. This most often results in future dirty martinis being made exactly the way I like. A good bartender will remember a good tipper. And will memorize exactly how a good tipper likes their favorite cocktails. I also know that when I bring friends to the bar, the bartender will take good care of them.
 
 
   What do I get out of it? That is the question everyone asks when any type of exchange is made. It is human nature. If you don't believe me, ask someone to do a favor for you. They will want something in exchange. Even if they are close friends. A close friend may automatically help you out because they have a history with you. You have helped them and they have helped you. If exchanges within a relationship remain one-sided, there will come a time when the party who is always giving will once again ask the question, "What do I get out of it?" If the answer is nothing, there will be no more one-sided exchanges, and it could result in the termination of that relationship. No one likes to feel used.
 
   So, how does this translate into the world of the exotic male dancer? The male dancer may be performing for a variety of reasons. One major reason for most, is to make money. Tipping is their main source of income in this profession. They may or may not receive a base pay from the employer. And in some cases, they may be paying the house a fee for the opportunity to dance.
 
 
   In the exchange between customer and male dancer, I personally am looking for a couple of things: First, I want some attention from a hot, sexy, piece of eye candy. Yes, that is shallow but hey this form of entertainment revolves around our primal nature. Second, I like naked men and want to see naked men. And if I can get by with it, I'm going to cop a feel of the goods, and squeeze a firm ass, pinch a nipple, etc. Like I said...revolves around our primal nature. BUT, and that's a big BUT! In exchange, I'm also going to tip well. They have something I want to enjoy so in order to help them continue providing that certain something, I'm going to continue tipping!
 
 
   Now before you get the idea that I'm some desperate ol' troll, let me assure you, that is not the case. I have a partner that I love and have been with for almost 18 years at the time I'm writing this blog. We both have fun at male strip clubs and for us, it is a favorite form of entertainment.
 
 
   Once a month starting in March, I will be publishing a blog that will be called The Tip Jar. This blog will provide suggestions and ideas to male dancers on how to make more in tip money. We will be covering topics such as the best underwear to wear to encourage tipping; the roll fragrance can play in encouraging customers to tip; how costumes and props can result in more tips, and much more! I'll of course throw in hot pics and other information so customers and fans will want to follow along as well.
 
 
   I want to pause here and say THANK YOU to everyone that is reading this, and to those who follow this blog on a regular basis. It is appreciated! Over the past almost 15 years we have created a community of like-minded individuals who enjoy the male dancers. I love hearing your stories and seeing the pics you post. Until next time, don't forget to tip the boys!

 
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Tuesday, February 27, 2018

Save The Bulge - Gio to the front - Males In Motion February Obsession

 
   Every now and then there is a male dancer that makes you catch your breath. He possesses certain characteristics or physical attributes that make you want to stare. And you stare, not in a disrespectful, awkward way, but in a very appreciative, thankful way. You're thankful that he has chosen to be a male dancer and share those characteristics and physical attributes with us mere mortals, or fans. In this case, I am of course speaking of Gio, the male dancer who has captured our attention in so many ways.
 
   Please take a moment and look at one of the pics and look at his face. Yes, his handsome face, let your eyes stop where they are currently gazing and look at that handsome face. That face with those dark, soulful eyes, and those full kissable lips. Ok, thank you for taking that moment with me, now you can go back to looking at his bulge. Yes, we did notice and let's just say that we are experiencing a constant interruption of Gio related daydreams while trying to write this blog.
 
   Ok, so Mother Nature blessed him with a large bulge, but look what he has done with the rest of the package. I mean that chest, those arms, those abs, those thighs! Dang! We often see male dancers that will have some of these physical attributes but to possess all of them! This is why we have chosen Gio to be our Males In Motion Obsession for February.
 
 
   However, we'll admit, we've been obsessed with Gio for a while now. We first noticed him over a year ago from Facebook posts made by Piranha Nightclub in Las Vegas. And since that time, we have followed his dick, I mean pics, faithfully and consistently with every post the club has made. Fortunately, he is featured in many of the pics that they use for advertising and promotion.
 
   As we mentioned above, you can find Gio dancing at Piranha Nightclub in Las Vegas. I have yet to experience an evening sliding dollar bills in Gio's underwear but hope to soon. I did have a couple of my spies go there recently and they said he is quite impressive in person.
 
 
   I also know a fellow exotic male dancer fan who ranks Gio as one of the top. He lives in Vegas and gets to stop in at Piranha often. Of that, I am jealous. But never fear, I will make it. I'm not a gambler so I'll be spending my time tipping Gio and his fellow hottie go-go boys.
 
 
 

@giovannysanz_ #gogodancer @piranhavegas

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   We felt a little R. Kelly would be appropriate for viewing the pics of Gio. Click play below and look back over the pics we've posted of Gio in this blog. We'll let you make your own interpretation of "I don't see nothin' wrong, with a little bump'n grind!" We've already interpreted it to fit our fantasy!
 
 
   The pic above is what started our whole obsession with Gio. And now that you've seen him, you'll have your own Gio obsession. When you find yourself in Las Vegas, make time to stop in and see Gio at Piranha Nightclub. Tip him a dollar for me and tell him Mike from Males In Motion says thanks for sharing! Until next time, take a few minutes and enjoy a Gio fantasy! And if you are not in Las Vegas, find a local bulge to support this week!
 
 

    2018 Males In Motion Obsessions

 
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Friday, February 16, 2018

Club Review: Chasers ~ Charlotte, NC

 

Photo Source: Chasers ~ Charlotte, NC
 
   I recently made a trip to Charlotte, NC. And of course, while in that fair city, as in all my travels, I seek out a club featuring male dancers. Chasers had been recommended to me by a close friend who had previously visited there. On this trip I made my way to Chasers. In their advertising you will often see the name Chasers NoDa. The NoDa stands for North Davidson Street which is an area of the city of Charlotte that is experiencing a renewal and renovation. A good friend of Chasers described it as "a growing area filled with quirkiness and artists and good food (about 4 blocks east of The Plaza)". After a thirteen hour ride in the car, I was ready for all of the above.
   I found Chasers easily and was directed to parking by an attendant outside the club. The entrance is on the parking lot side. I entered around 10:45pm and paid a $10.00 cover. I walked in to discover it was a special monthly urban night and the house was packed. This was a first for me, and a treat. I'm not often able to attend urban nights but those of you who know me, know that I was loving every minute of it. ***Evil Grin*** inserted here. The eye candy was very nice, both dancers and customers. As you walk into the door to the club there is a U shaped bar on the right. There were customers sitting in all the seats around it. I stepped up to the bar and ordered a Jack and Coke. The price was $7.00 and I gave a $2 tip.
   To the left of the bar was a raised seating area with tables and chairs. Just past the bar was an open area where several customers were dancing. Beyond that is a large stage area that takes up one corner of the back of the bar. It has two levels. On the top level at each end to the right and left is a dancer pole. There are other bars parallel to the floor beside each pole. The male dancers take turns swinging on the poles, and moving around on the bars. Some dancers would go to the lower area and move and bend over, etc., at the front of the stage. On the opposite corner of the stage is a sofa. The bar was packed so I made my way down toward the sofa and stood at the end so I could watch the dancers.
   There were five different dancers for the night. A dancer named French stopped by and talked with me for a few minutes. He has a great body and is sexy both to talk with and to watch as he dances. I stayed for a couple hours watching the dancers and then decided to come back the next night as well.
 
   On the second night, I chose not to drive so I could drink more if I wanted. So, I downloaded the Uber app and set up my first Uber ride. It went great. It was comfortable, inexpensive and no, I don't get any commission off of this from Uber. It just worked for me. I arrived at the club, paid the $10 cover, stopped at the bar for a drink and then found a seat at a table to the left. French was back this night and a couple of the dancers from the previous night, but there were several different dancers as well. A dancer named Juicy stopped by and introduced himself. We chatted a little while. It was a nice way to start the evening.
   I want to give a shout out to the DJs for the music that was played both nights. The music was perfect for the dancing boys and they were able to get into it. Once again I enjoyed the talents of French. I especially liked the white underwear he wore, and lets just say there was a nice bounce going on in the front.
 
   Later in the night I moved to the bar because a dancer I had been watching named Texas was dancing on the bar. He had a tight tatted body, and really knew how to dance. It was fun watching him, and of course, I had to move closer to tip him. He laid down across the bar and I slipped dollar bills into the waist of his underwear.
 
   Everyone at Chasers was friendly from customers, bartenders, dancers and staff. I felt welcomed. I relaxed, enjoyed my drinks, and definitely enjoyed the dancing boys. If you find yourself in Charlotte, NC or if you live in the area, I recommend that you make a visit to Chasers. I do recommend that if possible, you sit at the end of the bar. I enjoyed sitting there the best. I took another Uber back to the hotel and this time it was in a Lexus. Woot!
   Until next time, don't forget to tip the boys! Tip them extra if they bounce a lot in the front, or if they lay down across the bar, or if they...
NOTE: Special thanks to "a friend of Chasers" for the videos.

 
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Friday, February 9, 2018

Take The Party With You ~ Five Tips That Will Help You Always Have A Good Time!


Photo Source: Michael Hill Digital
 
   I'm not one to sit around and wait for someone else to start the party. I take the initiative to find a way to do what I want to do. As I've grown older, this characteristic of my personality has intensified. I grew up in a rural area of Arkansas. It was very scenic and outdoor activities were abundant. I enjoyed my favorite swimming hole, going four-wheeling, riding horses, riding motorcycles, and more. I learned from an early age that if I wanted to have fun, I would have to create the opportunities for myself. So, I planned things and then invited others to go with me. I am the same way today. And this holds true when I go to bars, clubs or events that feature exotic male dancers. I won't wait for someone else, instead I do five things so I can take the party with me.
 

Dancer: Alex     Photo Source: Men Of Eden     Photo by Ricky Mestre
 
   TIP ONE: CHOOSE TO HAVE A GOOD TIME. Make a conscious choice to find a way to have fun. Guess what? It will happen every time. Life is too short not to enjoy what is around us, particularly when that involves sexy men in underwear or less.
 
 
   TIP TWO: LOOK FOR THE POSITIVE. Anyone can find things to complain about. Anyone can choose to be negative and throw shade about a club, a dancer, another customer, a bartender, etc. Not all of my favorite experiences have been at shiny, sparkling high dollar clubs. Some of my most fun times have been at dive bars. I like both. And not every bar or club is going to have a stable of male dancers who look like gods and superheroes. (Well, unless it is Stockbar in Montreal or Swinging Richards in Atlanta, and a few others.) Each of us have a type of male dancer that we are attracted to and want to tip.
   I always find at least one dancer that I can have fun with, even if that dancer isn't my preferred type. I've said it and many others have said "he wasn't the type of dancer that I usually go for, but I'm glad I made an exception." There was a dancer at a well-known male strip club that was working the room while I was there. He wasn't the first dancer that caught my eye. But he chose to give me a shoulder rub while talking to me. I tipped him to keep him going, and the entire time he was rubbing my shoulders, I forgot all about the other dancers. After a long road trip, I was very appreciative!
 
 
   TIP THREE: BRING FRIENDS OR MAKE FRIENDS. When I first started Males In Motion, I was traveling a lot for the company I worked for at that time. This meant that when I visited male strip clubs during my hours away from work, I usually went alone. I didn't travel with work colleagues very often, and when I did, most of them would rather be at the local titty bar. So, I went alone and made friends. Even making one friend will work. If they are at a male strip club, you've already got something in common.
   Sharing the experience with someone else always adds to your enjoyment. I recommend that you laugh a lot and tip a lot! If you are uncomfortable speaking with a stranger at a bar or club, make online friends in the area where you will be traveling. Meet them at the bar or club while in the area. If they are a local, they might be able to provide some great insights on the best places to go, or their favorite dancers and bartenders. And if there are no customers that you feel comfortable getting to know, spend time talking with the dancers and bartenders. Of course, remember to tip as well.
 

Photo Source: Rebar ~ Chelsea - NYC
 
   TIP FOUR: TIP THE DANCING BOYS. Watching the dancers on a stage, a box, a bar, etc., is fun but the real experience comes in the exchange while tipping. Sliding those dollar bills into waistbands is half the fun! Take a trip to the VIP Lounge and indulge yourself in a private lap dance. Live a story you can tell the next day! I have some great stories that I've told in past blogs about private lap dances at Boxer 'N Briefs (St. Louis), Swinging Richards (Atlanta), Dick's Cabaret (Phoenix), Stockbar (Montreal), Le Campus (Montreal), and X-Room at Mardi Gras (Springfield, MA). I've had a lot of fun at The Corner Pocket in New Orleans while sitting at the bar. And I've enjoyed the Ohio boys at O'Connors Club 20 in Columbus.
 

Photo Source: The Corner Pocket ~
 
   TIP FIVE: GET UP AND GO OUT. Of course, none of the four tips above will matter at all if you never leave your home. Get up, go out, and have fun! If you are a fan of exotic male dancers, become a regular customer of your local bar or club that features male dancers. This past year we have seen several clubs close their doors because of a drop in customer support. Become a regular and let the management know what you like. Being a regular turns the bar or club into a special place for you. You'll get to know the dancers and staff and have a place you like to hang out!
 

Photo Source: Stockbar ~ Montreal, Quebec
 
   Until next time, Support the bulge! Take the party with you and have a great time!

 
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